Peter Piper had a pecker, but he also had a prostate.
When pleasuring your lover, you may find that most of your time is spent stimulating the penis and scrotum. These tried and true areas are guaranteed to arouse you and your partner, but are they the only way to satisfy him? While these are excellent places to start, there are other important erogenous zones on the male body that go largely ignored and deserve more attention.
Allow us to introduce the prostate: a walnut-sized gland mainly known for being the engine behind sperm production and release. Its important functions shouldn’t overshadow its hidden pleasurable benefit, yet prostate stimulation isn’t as common knowledge as we believe it should be.
Safely tucked between the bladder and the penis and resting on top of the rectum, the prostate can be an excellent source of satisfaction for men. With guided tools and an open mind, you can learn new ways to arouse and excite your partner.
Where is the P-spot?
Because this erogenous zone can’t be seen with the naked eye and is difficult to locate even during arousal, the prostate tends to be forgotten, usurped by the popularity of the penis. If you’re in the mood for a different kind of thrill, prostate play may be just the ticket you’re looking for.
Known as the male G-spot, the P-spot can be targeted internally with anal insertion, or externally, with perineum arousal. Pay attention to the soft, malleable areas around the balls, applying gradual pressure with your tongue or hands. As you continue to stimulate the zone, make sure to communicate with your partner to ensure they feel comfortable and are enjoying the sensations. Its high level of sensitivity can elicit inexplicable satisfaction, and lead to an extraordinary climax that doesn’t involve sperm release.
How to Have a Prostate Orgasm
Unique in its sensations and climax, prostate orgasms don’t rely on ejaculation and can occur multiple times during intimate play without any recovery time. By inserting a finger or two a few inches into the anus, you’ll be able to target the prostate effectively.
With a sensual come hither motion, bend your fingers towards his belly button for accurate penetration.
You can also arouse the gland from the outside, focusing your attention on the perineum, the surface region between the anus and penis. When aroused, the prostate will swell and feel somewhat textured, letting you know that you’ve reached his sweet spot.
Aside from finger stimulation, sex toys can also be great devices to use during prostate exploration. Curved and ergonomically shaped, prostate toys are designed to accurately target the area for maximum comfort and ultimate satisfaction. Vibrating toys are also great accessories that come in handy when you want to combine prostate with scrotal or even oral stimulation.
What Does a Prostate Orgasm Feel Like?
When you think of male satisfaction, you think of ejaculating, but when you consider prostate orgasms vs. penile orgasms, the former is better for most men. A prostate orgasm is a full-body experience, and it’s far more intense than ejaculation. In fact, most prostate orgasms don’t involve actual coming, which involves prostate milking where milky fluid comes out. Prostate massage, which is used to stimulate pleasure, typically doesn’t yield this result. Men can even have multiple prostate orgasms, without the need for recovery time.
What Is a Prostate Massager?
A prostate massager is a sex toy that’s created strictly for prostate pleasure. A prostate vibrator, for example, typically has a curve that gives it direct contact with the gland. Many have varying levels of powerful vibrations help increase sensation and a flared base that helps keep it from entering too far.
Top 13 Best Prostate Toys Couples
If you’ve gotten this far on our blog, there’s a good chance you’ve either experienced the thrilling novelty of a prostate toy orgasm or you’re ready to experience one yourself. Whether you’re alone or with a partner, prostate toys can be an enormously liberating experience. They allow men the opportunity to step outside social limitations and enjoy a new kind of pleasure…
For this reason, our Ella Sex Toy Experts put together a list of 13 of our best prostate toys available at Ellaparadis.com. From prostate massagers that stimulate sensitive gland simply by touching or rubbing it, and others that use sensations like vibration, rotation or a wave-like “come hither” motion. These prostate toys are sure to fulfill your wildest desires!
About the b-Vibe Rimming Plug
Meet the b-Vibe Rimming Plug, the first premium plug engineered to incorporate rotating beads for a rimming sensation and powerful tip vibration for orgasmic stimulation.
Its rotating beads and powerful stimulating tip makes this silicone vibrator excellent for couples play and single solo time. Stimulating the sensitive nerve endings in the anus, the textured beads send chills up your spine while the vibrating tip targets the prostate with ease.
Choose how you want to play by using the wireless remote which can arouse your lover from up to 30 feet away.
Watch How the Rimming Plug Works!
b-Vibe Rimming Plug Features:
- Soft, seamless silicone plug with remote
- 6 vibration intensity levels of 6 vibration patterns
- Remote control technology that works up to 30 feet away
- Splash proof, shower friendly, and easy to clean
- Lithium Ion battery runs 1.5 hours on a single charge
- USB rechargeable – empty to full in 2 hours
- Convenient, discreet travel case included
About the Je Joue Nuo Vibrating Butt Plug
The perfect anal toy for him and for her, Nuo can be controlled by buttons with the Je Joue app for sensual long-distance play. With Nuo there are no boundaries and no limits – couples living apart can share deeper, richer sensations wherever they are in the world.
Users can play subtle power games with their partner and let them take control of their pleasure from afar. Using the Je Joue app (for iTunes of Android), partners can stimulate each others’ prostates and perineum for heightened anal sensations. The soft, flexible silicone joint between the plug and the base makes positioning gentle and comfortable while allowing for a full sensation internally.
Nuo Vibrating Butt Plug Details
- Partner-controlled or solo play – Partner play becomes more of a tease with our elegant remote and easy-to-use app. Our discreet interfaces also make solo play all the more enjoyable.
- Comfort shape – Nuo is a uniquely different anal toy, shaped with a gentle curve and bulbous form. The slender base follows the body’s natural lines and allows the toy to nestle between the buttocks and stay in place with ease.
- Prostate play – Rotate Nuo with the curve facing upward (towards the direction of the
belly button) to better access the prostate (aka P-spot), one of the most sensitive erogenous zones in the male body. Tilt and rock Nuo to explore depths and intensify the experience to your satisfaction.
- Posterior preparation – Nuo boasts a unique width at its stem that makes it an ideal toy to use in preparation for anal.
- Enhanced stimulation – slender base features an independent motor that stimulates the perineum; an incredibly sensitive, yet oft-overlooked, erogenous zone.
Watch How the Nuo Works!
Je Joue Nuo Features:
- 2 independent motors: 1 internal and 1 external
- 100% waterproof (bath friendly)
- 100% body-safe silicone (phthalate-free)
- Quiet, yet powerful
- Sleek and completely seamless with a velvety-smooth surface
- 2 hours charge gives 2 hours pleasure
- Available in 2 shades: black and purple
- Designed with comfort in mind for all body types
- Partner-controlled stimulation using safe remote technology
- Includes an elegant pen-shaped remote (up to a 15-meter range)
- Control with your smartphone via the free Je Joue app
- Connect with your partner from anywhere using the app’s playlist function
- Wide range of vibrations, from a gentle purr to a deep rumble with 5 powerful speeds and 7 teasing patterns
About the We-Vibe Ditto Prostate Toy
Discover the excitement of anal play with Ditto by We-Vibe™, a vibrating plug that keeps its exciting promises. Use it during foreplay, or during the main event to unlock a new level of pleasure. This remote-enabled adult toy can be paired with the We-Connect app for exciting couples play.
Uniquely designed, this flexible toy will make sure you both climax as it’s highly reviewed as the best sex toy for couples. Controlled by you or by your lover via the We-Vibe app, this silicone butt plug has a small head and neck for ease of use and comes with 10 incredibly delicious vibration modes so that you can tailor your experience.
Watch How the Ditto Works!
We-Vibe Ditto Features:
- Remote Control Enabled
- Vibrating Butt Plug
- Flexible, Tapered Neck
- 10 Vibration Modes
- We-Connect App Compatible
Most Popular Prostate Sex Toys
If you are still reading this blog, then we have a special treat for you! By now you are already aware that one way to reach that sort of orgasmic enlightenment is to use a prostate toy…and we are beyond thrilled to join you on this exploration to find the right prostate toy for you.
Below is a list of our most popular sex toys, including the best prostate massagers, available at Ella Paradis. What makes these so popular? Well, to put it simply…our customers say so! These sex toys for men are specially designed with different features to enhance your pleasure experience.
About the LELO Bruno Prostate Sex Toy
More and more men have come to appreciate the pleasurable power of the Lelo Bruno Massager. For internal and external pleasure, join these men by adding this prostate massager to your sex toy collection — and enjoy rare sexual experiences.
Powerful and popular, Bruno is the ultimate body-safe silicone prostate massager for internal and external stimulation. Uniquely designed, with its two vibrating motors and curved head, you can explore new territory with targeted enjoyment and smooth removal. Fully waterproof, take this toy down under and experiment with its 6 different vibration patterns.
Bruno Prostate Massager Details
- More Power For More Pleasure – Bruno is an ultra-powerful and luxurious vibrating prostate massager, designed to offer you a hands-free climax and longer-lasting, more intense pleasure.
- Two Powerful Motors – one for the prostate, another in the ‘base’ for the perineum, make the sensations overwhelming, with the option to explore 6 different vibration settings at the touch of a button
- Perfectly Shaped – to stay in place and stimulate the prostate, BRUNO’s size, shape and performance offer mind-blowing pleasure.
- Durable Power – Bruno offers hours of satisfying pleasure from a single 2-hour charge and fully-submersible for the bath or shower.
- Made from smooth, body-safe silicone, BRUNO also benefits from a 1-year warranty and a 10-year pleasure guarantee.
- AVN Awards – Best Pleasure Products Manufacturer
Watch How Bruno Works!
LELO Bruno Features:
- Certified Body-Safe – The highest standard of safety and construction
- 100% Waterproof – Perfect for the bath or shower
- Fully Rechargeable – More power, less fuss
- Full Warranty Coverage – 1-year coverage
- Medium size for all men
- Two motors for simultaneous internal and external pleasure
- Perfectly Shaped for comfort and sensation
- Materials: Body-safe silicone / ABS
- Size: 13.1 x 16.8 x 4.1 cm / 4.1 x 4.2 x 1.6 inches
- Diameter: 3.25cm /1.28 inches
- Insertable Length: 8.5cm/3.4 inches
- Weight: 116g
- Battery: 420mAh
- Charging: 2h at 5.0V
- User Time: 2h
- Standby: 90 days
- Max. Noise Level: <50dB
- Interface: 1-Button
- Available in Black and Purple
About the Loki Wave Prostate Toy
For external and internal stimulation, let the Loki Wave prostate toy beckon you to an intense orgasm to relish, to remember and relive. Combined with the power of its dual motors and up to 10 adjustable stimulation modes, the only thing that can stop you is your refusal to start. Come hither and enjoy!
Seduce your lover with this innovative ‘come hither’ gesture toy that is sure to beckon their deepest desires. Its broad bulbed head oscillates to trigger the prostate and has up to 10 varying stimulation modes for an intensely creative experience. Its sleek ergonomic shape gives you 8 inches of exhilarating fun.
Loki Wave Prostate Toy Details
- WaveMotion technology creates a ‘come-hither’ movement for the perfect, pleasurable prostate massage
- More Power, More Pleasure – Dual Motors to accurately target the prostate and perineum for more explosive climaxes
- 8 Adjustable Vibrating Settings — find your perfect level, from a teasing tickle to deep, satisfying power
- Ride Waves of Pleasure – The first massager capable of surging within you for intense prostate stimulation
- AVN Awards – Best Pleasure Products Manufacturer
Watch How Loki Works!
LELO Loki Wave Features:
- Sleek and ergonomic design: perfect shape.
- Body-safe material and eco-friendly
- Easy to use and recharge (USB)
- Powerful dual-motors
- Fully Waterproof
- 1-year manufacturer warranty
- 2 colors: Federal Blue and Black
- 6 powerful settings for bigger, better orgasms every time
- Accurately targets the prostate to induce more explosive climaxes
- Anatomically perfect and aesthetically beautiful in design
- Smooth, curved girth with stability ring helps you to reach the perfect spot with ease
- 100% Waterproof
- USB-rechargeable for adventurous play
- Easy to clean, with the option of using in the bath or shower, LOKI™ has you covered
- Length: 8 inches
- Insertable Length: 4 inches
- Circumference: 4.5 inches
- Base type: Handle
About the Lelo Hugo Prostate Massager
This is the most powerful and most luxurious prostate massager ever made. The remote-controlled HUGO is perfectly designed to offer entirely new avenues of sexual satisfaction thanks to two intense vibrating.
In addition to having eight settings and exclusive Sense Motion technology, the HUGO is all set to become the play partner you’ve been waiting for. USB-rechargeable and 100% waterproof, this expertly-sized pleasure object deeply massages the prostate, while a secondary motor in the base stimulates the perineum for absolutely overwhelming stimulation.
Hugo Prostate Massager Details
- THE MOST POWERFUL – HUGO is the most powerful remote control vibrating prostate massager in the world right now, made from fully waterproof silicone and designed for men who truly understand the power of personal pleasure.
- Wirelessly Control – the massager from up to 12 meters with LELO’s trademark motion-sensitive controller, with eight settings opening up endless pleasurable possibilities for couples.
- Two Powerful Motors — one for the prostate, another in the ‘base’ for the perineum, make the sensations overwhelming, with the option to explore 6 different vibration settings at the touch of a button
- Perfectly Shaped — to stay in place and stimulate the prostate, HUGO’s size, shape and performance offer mind-blowing pleasure.
- Made from smooth, body-safe silicone, HUGO benefits from a 1-year warranty and a 10-year pleasure guarantee.
- AVN Awards – Best Pleasure Products Manufacturer
Watch How Hugo Works!
LELO Hugo Features:
- Body safe
- Wireless control
- USB Rechargeable
- Quiet vibrations
- 2 AA Batteries required (included)
Best for Prostate Toys For Beginners
If you are just getting started with exploring P-spot pleasure, it’s important not to rush into anything too big! Take time to enjoy the process of feeling this new type of sensation. Below are the best prostate sex toys for anyone just starting to explore anal play!
Nexus Glide Prostate Massager
About The Nexus Glide Prostate Massager
The Nexus Glide is a stainless roller ball massager designed to appeal to the eyes, pleasure the body and serve as a piece of solo exploration and a tool for partner play. The shaft is shaped for effortless insertion and optimum prostate stimulation whilst the roller ball at the base glides against the perineum for simultaneous pleasuring.
In addition to being a great started prostate toy, the Nexus Glide is a sex toy that blends aesthetics and quality. With its contoured shaft, this innovative massager is a toy men can rely on for an explosive release of pleasure. Perfect for beginners.
New explorers will enjoy the innovative and slick design of the Glide prostate massager. With patented stainless steel rollerball technology and a slim silicone shaft, this toy stimulates the prostate internally while the rollerball glides against the sensitive perineum. Add this to your partner play the next time you want to spice things up in the bedroom.
Nexus Prostate Glide Features:
- Contoured shaft
- Handle for manual intervention
- Stainless steel roller ball massager
- Easy to clean
- Shaft length: 11.5cm (4.53 inches)
- Shaft circumference: 8.7cm (3.43 inches)
- Color: Available in Purple and Black
About The Aneros Eupho Syn Trident
A new evolution of Eupho has arrived – Aneros’ Eupho Syn, a perfect synthesis of the popular prostate massager with velvet touch silicone. The Eupho Syn maintains the slim design and small head allowing for more targeted massages.
Excellent for beginners and those that want to improve their sphincter muscle strength, this prostate stimulator will bring on waves of pleasure like nothing has before. Its small slim silicone head makes it an excellent massager no matter your body type. Enjoy hands-free pleasure as you allow this toy to target your sweetest spots.
In addition, the increased comfort is derived from the addition of a thick silicone coating over the rigid frame necessary for an awe-inspiring prostate experience. Eupho Syn is ideal for men with stronger sphincter muscles, who can control the massaging capabilities through varied contractions. Even the most experienced users of prostate massagers will discover new sensations by exploring their body with Eupho Syn.
Watch How The Euphorias Syn Trident Works!
After years of research, Aneros found that simply making their products out of silicone would not give the same outstanding prostate massage that they are world-renowned for. However, with a sturdy inner frame, you are treated to the most comfortable and mind-blowing experience you’ve ever imagined.
You work hard to treat yourself to the finest things, and we respect that. Included at no extra charge is a stunning red storage box built with your discretion in mind. A simple clear, glossy logo printed on the side of the box is only visible when held at an angle. The box’s magnetic enclosure ensures that your favorite toy stays tucked away from prying eyes.
Aneros Eupho Syn Trident Features:
- Hands free pleasure
- Phthalate free
- Velvet touch silicone
- No batteries required
- Tip Width: .75 Inches
- Mid-Ridge Width: 1 inch
- Insertable Length: 4 inches.
About the Dr. Joel Kaplan Prostate Locator
When Dr. Joel Kaplan, a world-renowned sexual educator and a pioneer/force in the male sex toy niche with over 25 years’ experience partners with California Exotic to create a sex toy, the result must be awesome. Named after Kaplan, this Prostate Massager doesn’t disappoint. It comes with a silky smooth satin finish and is brilliantly angled for ultimate contact — and pleasure.
Dr. Joel Kaplan Prostate Massager is a waterproof premium adult toy made from hypoallergenic ABS plastic with a silky smooth, polyurethane cote. This firm velvety massager is equipped with an ergonomic multi-speed system with an extended handle that measures 6.75 inches (17.25 cm) by 1 inch (2.5 cm) to effortlessly hit your pleasure point.
The silky-smooth prostate massager starts at an arousing low vibration and increases in intensity with the turn of a dial at the base of the massager. You can choose from a variety of teasing vibration speeds until you get something that works for you.
Dr. Joel Kaplan Prostate Locator Features:
- Made of body-safe material
- Multi-speed vibrations
- Made for couples
- Can serve as G-spot vibe
- Easy to clean with warm water and warm soap
- Waterproof—totally submersible
- Works with replaceable AAA battery
About CalExotics Prostate His Prostate Training Kit
Why use one toy when you can have the pleasure of four? With three super sleek probes with diverse effects on your prostate and a vibrating stimulator, your anal exploration becomes an affair you can trust to derive optimum satisfaction.
With a little bit of learning, some exploration, and a whole lot of fun, this kit will open you up easily with different-sized toys depending on your comfort level. The kit includes durable, body-safe silicone toys like multi-sized anal beads, pinpoint probes and remote-controlled vibrating rings. With something for everyone, this kit brings you the best value for a night of intoxicating excitement.
The CalExotics His Prostate Training Kit is made of 3-piece tapered probes and a multi-speed vibe for a thrilling affair in the backside. The ribbed silicone anal probe and tapered plug let you gently increase the size of your pleasure, an attribute that would wow beginners.
Notably, you can use each piece independently or slip the vibe bullet into the probes O-ring to enjoy one of a kind backdoor pleasure. The largest probe is equipped with a supportive enhancement ring for a thrilling experience for even the most advanced user.
Enjoy an explosive pleasure experience while the ring increases sensitivity, stamina and girth. With only the turn of a dial, you can increase the intensity of the vibration to the height that pleases you most.
His Prostate Training Features:
- 4-piece anal prostate training kit
- 3 super soft silicone probes
- Multispeed vibrating stimulator
- Powered by 2 AAA Batteries
- Silicone, phthalate-free, non-allergenic, and body-safe
- Easy to clean
Most Powerful Prostate Toys
If you’ve made it this far into the blog you are probably on the search for the megalodon of prostate sex toys! Well, you’ve come to the right place. Below is one of our most powerful prostate massagers available at Ella Paradis. Warning: you might get turned on just looking at this bad boy!
About The Nexus Revo Stealth Prostate Massager Sex Toy
The Revo Stealth is the improvement of the Nexus Revo. Now you can have your toy comfortable in your palms and controllable with remote control from up to 8 meters away. New technology, same old intensive pleasure.
As the name suggests, this is one of the most powerful silicone prostate toys on the market. In addition, its powerful, rotating shaft can be controlled with a sleek and compact remote control, allowing you to indulge in public play with discretion. Turn up the volume by trying out the 6 vibration patterns and 2-speed modes. Hypoallergenic and non-porous, this splashproof toy makes a great companion for your next prostate adventure.
The Revo Stealth is based on the amazing Revo 2, now allowing you greater freedom with the power of its remote control. In addition, the Revo Stealth is equipped with 2 speed rotating for simultaneous perineum and prostate massaging counting on its 6 vibrating functions to give your body fuller sensation.
Watch How The Revo Stealth Works!
The Revo Stealth is made from high-grade silicone meaning it’s hypoallergenic and non-porous. For one thing, its splash-proof feature makes it super easy to clean. The Revo Stealth is fully rechargeable and comes to you with a unique charging pad and universal USB cable, eliminating the need for batteries and making the powering of your favorite toy handy.
However, it’s important to note that while the Revo Stealth is splashproof, it cannot be submerged in water. Use water-based lubricants only for maximum enjoyment.
Nexus Prostate Revo Stealth w/ Remote Control Features:
- 2-speed rotating shaft
- 6 settings
- A total of 12 intense rotation and vibration combinations
- Remote control
- Made from silky smooth hypoallergenic silicone
- Comes with charging pad and USB cable
- Splashproof and cannot be submerged in water
Choose one or choose them all! One of these sex toys is bound to fit your pleasure style. Prostate play is unique, fun and insanely satisfying.
In short, whether you’re using toys, tongue, or good old-fashioned fingers, you can’t go wrong tapping into this sensitive zone.
Consider yourself more informed; it isn’t every day that you learn something this good.
Things to Consider When Buying a Prostate Massager
When you’re considering buying a prostate massager, there are a few things you want to keep in mind.
Quality — this is not one area you want to skimp on. High-quality toys are important for several reasons, first and foremost: your safety. Plus, when they’re high quality, you’ll likely have the toy for several years.
Materials — prostate massagers come in different materials. One of your best bets is medical-grade silicone. This is one of the most popular materials due to its longevity and its body-safeness.
Features — this will depend on the user, but the features really do matter if you’re looking for a great toy that does more than just enter the anus. Vibrations, pulsation and come-hither motions all add to the fun.
How to Use Prostate Toys
Using prostate toys isn’t all that difficult, you just have to know where the prostate is to get the desired results. Start by teasing the area, getting used to being probed, especially if this is one of your first times playing with the area.
Nothing can really prepare you for the pleasurable sensation, but it’s almost always a welcome surprise.
Once you’ve played around the area, which you can feel between the perineum and the base of the penis, it’s time to start exploring inside. Inserting your fingers or a toy just a few inches inside is all it takes. From there, get comfortable and play around — find what you like and it’s not something you’ll soon forget.
Should I use Lube?
When it comes to lube, the answer is yes, always. You should always use lube, even if you’re experienced in prostate play.
The truth is, the area isn’t well lubricated, even during arousal, so having lube, especially water-based lube, makes everything go that much smoother. Invest in a good brand, one that feels comfortable for you, and stay stocked up — you’ll be glad you did.
Tips & Advice for Using Prostate Toys
Prostate play is a lot of fun for those who are into it. It definitely involves finding the right spot, otherwise you’ll be left wondering what the hub-bub is all about. If that’s the case, get back down there! Trust us, you’ll know when you find the spot.
When using prostate toys, make sure you’re comfortable. Nothing sexual is fun if you’re well outside your comfort zone. It may take a few times before you’re comfortable using toys and that’s completely okay!
Take it slow. This cannot be stated enough and it’s especially true if you’re a newbie. Involve the perineum, the testicles and even the penis, to help you relax.
Going too fast can lead to injury. Speaking of injury, use appropriate-sized toys. Start out on the smaller end and gradually increase it if you desire.
Cleaning & Care of Prostate Toys
After you’ve had your fun, post prostate play, it’s time to put your toys away and believe it or not, there’s a right way and a wrong way.
The right way? Clean your toy, most times simple soap and water is fine. Some toys have special care instructions, so pay attention to the manual that comes with it, if applicable.
The wrong way? Throw it in a draw and forget about it until the next time you want to use it. This is a great way to foster bacteria growth and potentially ruin the toy and with the price tag on some of them, it’s not something you want to do.
Which Prostate Toy Is Right For Me?
The type of prostate toy you choose is dependent on your personal preference. If you’re a newbie and you’re not sure where to start, consider what you’re looking for. Is it solely penis pleasure, or are you looking for toys to play with your partner?
Let’s take a look at a few options. The anal vibrator and even an anal plug are both excellent options for your masturbation sessions. However, they also integrate well into your sex life with your partner.
Simply put, the right prostate toy for you is the one that not only checks your boxes but gives you the most pleasure — after all, that’s the entire reason you’re researching and shopping, right?
Other Sex Toys for Men
If you’re looking to add even more spice to your life, or to your man’s, there are several other toys that you can try, too. Consider dildos, because they’re not just for women!
They come in a variety of sizes and styles, so you can play around and discover what works best to achieve prostate orgasm.
When it comes to anal sex, a cock ring can also add some extra stimulation. Not only does it help prolong the orgasm, but it adds sensation.
Some even vibrate, which increases pleasure during intercourse. Anal plugs or beads are a great addition to the bedroom festivities, they’re fun for foreplay, or even during actual sex.