Untether Your Bondage Fantasies

The five products you need to have on hand for the moment he decides to go straight Christian Grey on you.

Since the release of Fifty Shades of Grey, talk of bondage and soft BDSM has become more popular and participation in bondage play is considered much less taboo than it used to be. Whether you’re just beginning to experiment in the world of Bondage, or you’re already a pro, you probably are aware that there are a few must-haves when it comes to accessories. Let’s take a look.

#1 Handcuffs & Restraints

Untether Your Bondage Fantasies

What is the first thing that comes to mind when you think of BDSM or bondage play? Most would agree that handcuffs or restraining devices are the most well-known accessory for soft bondage bedroom play. Whether you’re highly experienced in bondage and you want full restraints like the Sinful Bed Restraint Straps from NS Novelties or you’re just getting started and would prefer something a little more gentle, like the Bijoux Indiscrets Silky Sensual Handcuffs, you’ll definitely want to find the right pair so you can have them on hand when that perfect bondage moment arises.

#2 Spankers & Ticklers

Untether Your Bondage Fantasies

If you’re considering bondage as the next step for your relationship, you may want to add a Spanker or a Tickler to your collection of toys. These, much like the handcuffs, range from playful and soft for soft bondage players and beginners (for example: the Tickle Me Tickler) to a little more intense for the more advanced bondage players (for example: Longing for Leather Bullwhip.)

#3 Nipple Clamps

Untether Your Bondage Fantasies

For those of you who are really getting into the more advanced versions of bondage, nipple clamps are a phenomenal way to take things up a notch. Again, as with most other accessories in bondage play, you can decide what range of pain/pleasure is your speed, and pick the perfect clamps for you and your partner.

#4 Blindfolds & Gags

Untether Your Bondage Fantasies
Untether Your Bondage Fantasies

No matter where you stand on bondage or BDSM, blindfolds can be a fun toy to incorporate into your partner bedroom play. When you can’t see what your partner is doing, all of your remaining senses are significantly heightened, making the experience much more intense.

Similarly, within bondage play, gags are often used. This can be in the form of a ball gag, which is specifically designed for bondage and fetish use, or it can be a silk tie that doubles as both a restraining device and as a gag.

#5 Costumes & Masks

Untether Your Bondage Fantasies
Untether Your Bondage Fantasies

A big part of bondage for most is role-play. This can be in any form you choose, whether you and your partner simply act out ‘the milk man at the door’ fantasy you’ve always had or whether you decide to take on full domination/submission roles. The best part of role-play is putting on a costume. The more costumes you acquire, the more roles you can experiment with. Slipping into a mask along with your costume can add a little extra mystery to the game.

 

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